It is quite interesting what the word sister(ing) means. If you take a look at what comes up when you Google it one of the first definitions is "The reinforcement of a structural member by nailing or attaching a stronger piece to a weaker one". I first heard this term at a ladies conference where a sweet friend and our pastor's wife at the time put together a wonderful lesson on being exactly what that definition says. Lately I have been so burdened over how many ladies seem to be broken in spirit. We are all facing so many challenges every day. As women we strive to be what it is that other's expect or need. Many times we feel empty. We put aside the one thing that is vital to us remaining strong and capable. That one thing is Jesus! 1 Thessalonians 5:11 tells us to encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing (ESV). Ladies we have to find a way to lift each other up when we see that one of us is down. Whether we do that through prayer, fasting, serving, relieving, driving, babysitting, crying together, or sharing in moments of laughter and great joy! We must stand in the gap! We need to pull together inside and outside our church homes. If we see the opportunity to address something in truth and love we should pray and ask God to give us the words to do that. That their hearts would be willing to receive it. There will be times that we are called to do something outside of our comfort zone. Are we ready to step out in faith and do that? Will we be obedient? Let's come together like we never have before sisters. We only need to be willing to do it! God will help us with the rest. We will not always know or understand the circumstances but, as sisters in Christ we are called to love in truth. We can be bold! We can be fearless as we proclaim the word to those we care about. Pray continually- please share your thoughts with me. I would love to pray with you or for you! Be encouraged as we do this together...hand in hand! Amen!
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I often ask myself..."Am I doing the best I can?" As a mama, a wife, a sister, friend, an employee? These are just the daily things I know I have to do. I think there is always room for improvement. I want to dig a little deeper these days. My best, what does that look like, feel like, sound like? How is it that I can improve in these areas where I feel I am lacking? First of all I have to remember that in myself I am only able to do so much. Things begin to unravel when I get in the way of what God is doing. I start feeling overwhelmed and like I am losing control of situations. My life begins to resemble the art of a two year old, a lot of scribble and scrabble, and there is no balance. So- how do I regain my peace? How can I make a difference? A difference so profound that I don't even understand it? A difference where my children are left in shock, my husband says, "Where is my wife?", and on the job co-workers are left wondering what has taken place in her life? This is the impact I want to make! To start with something small and allow God to take it, mold it, shape it, and grow it into something incomprehensible! FAITH! BELIEF! TRUST! #FBT! James 1:6 "If you don’t know what you’re doing, pray to the Father. He loves to help. You’ll get his help, and won’t be condescended to when you ask for it. Ask boldly, believingly, without a second thought. People who “worry their prayers” are like wind-whipped waves. Don’t think you’re going to get anything from the Master that way, adrift at sea, keeping all your options open" (MSG). I love the way this is worded. I only need to ask God to help me, HE loves to help! How cool is that! The catch is that when I ask for help I need to believe. No doubting. Well, there you have it brothers and sisters. Make a difference, ask God for help and BELIEVE! I would love to receive feedback so please feel free to respond to my blogs any time.
The link at the bottom is to a video I created for Mother's Day to my mama. I wanted to share it here because I am sure that someone out there is experiencing the same sense of overwhelming waves of memories. Whether they are some of the sweetest moments they can remember or maybe it is the flood of grief that returns whenever this particular day comes around. No matter what the feeling is, it is yours and you are allowed to have it. I can say this from my own personal experience of losing my mama at fifty-two years old...the pain does not seem quite as sharp today. I do still long for certain things at times though. I miss her voice and wonder if I might sound like her, I miss her sense of humor, I miss the smell of fried chicken when I would walk in the door, and I especially miss her hugs and prayers. Isn't it wonderful that God places ladies in our lives to fill that empty place! Wonderful examples of godly women who come along side us and give us 'mama' hugs when we need them, a good meal or a shoulder to cry on. No one could ever replace that loss but, God sure does know how to help us when we are in that fragile state. Feel free to share your thoughts or feeling here, or request prayer. I would be honored to pray with you or for you. Happy Mother's Day! God Bless. https://animoto.com/play/tdF5SIEujUl8nbl6sOr4Qg
Mother's Day. One of the most sweet, sincere, emotional days out of the year. This video above is very touching and as a mom it will bring tears to your eyes. I have four children of my own. I became a mom very young. My oldest son is grown and living out of our home now. As a young mother I have made many mistakes but, God was gracious enough to allow me to have two more boys in 2003/2004 and then a little girl in 2011. I lost my mama in 2009 to a ten year battle with cancer. I remember the years leading up to her passing and with each Mother's day that came around I was so grateful for her to still be here. Our last Mother's day together was probably the sweetest one of all. Even though she could no longer speak, or walk, or eat. She still wanted to go to church and she was wheeled down to the altar where I got down on my knees with my head in her lap and cried and prayed to God! I knew what was about to happen in the next few days but, my prayer was answered that she would be able to be with us through that Mother's day. I wrote a poem for her and wanted to share it here on this website with those of you who may be facing a hard time with this approaching Mother's day. We must treasure each day we have with our moms because God has specifically chosen us for them and them for us! If you need prayer or just someone to listen please send a post or email. (Proverbs 31:10-30 NIV)
Hand in hand we're walking, forever by your side. No fear will overtake us, together we will ride. This road that you've been given seems off the beaten course. But, now we know your purpose is one of much reward. For God would never lead us in a direction where He'd forsake us, & He would never choose us for a plan that wouldn't make it. I step each step with you & I pray you through each day. You are an inspiration & a joy to portray. My mom my best friend, how I love you so. I pray you understand and I hope that you will know. This isn't just your journey but, ours to travel together. God gave me to you mom because He knew I'd leave you never. I will treasure every moment holding on to your hand tight, knowing once I let you go the LORD will have you in His might. Hand in hand we're walking forever by your side. No fear will overtake us together we will ride. (By: Cherease Kincaid written: 12/12/08) |
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